As people
become more sensitive towards the diversity of life plans and situations, there
is also a growing awareness of the reality of family models that go far beyond
father, mother, child(ren). Even if it is precisely this model that continues
to be presented as the supposed norm in public perception, alternative
constellations have long been part of everyday life for many people. Patchwork
families, ones where the legal guardians do not see themselves at the
supposedly opposite ends of the two poles “male" and “female", and not least single
parents often have a greater need for advice. This frequently has to do with
precisely this normative standardisation, which is also expressed in laws and
other rules of social coexistence.
It is often
the mothers who have to reconcile career and family responsibilities alone.
Almost every fifth mother raises her child(ren) alone. In contrast, single
fathers make up only one in ten of all single-parent families.
The Federal
Ministry for Family Affairs, Senior Citizens, Women and Youth offers a (in German only) on its website.
You can find out which financial support might be available to you via the (Infotool Familie) (in German only).
Single parents in Frankfurt
Since the
beginning of 2012, the Family Service has offered an advisory service that
deals with the specific questions and challenges of fathers in their studies
and careers at 51ÁÔÆæ Frankfurt. (Expectant) fathers can contact
Benjamin Kirst, Family Service Officer, with any questions they might have
about the compatibility of study/career and family responsibilities as well as
parental allowance (Elterngeld) and parental leave (Elternzeit). His contact details
can be found in the column on the right.
The first
port of call for international students at 51ÁÔÆæ Frankfurt
is Global Affairs Study and Teaching.
International
doctoral candidates and researchers, who come to work/conduct research at Goethe
University Frankfurt, should please contact Goethe Welcome Centre.
Here you can find information regarding the residence permit.
For
international students too, 51ÁÔÆæ Frankfurt offers a range of
scholarships. You can find more detailed information on the website of Global Affairs Study and Teaching.
A
study-related stay abroad presents a major challenge for many student parents.
Those who dare to do it return not only with a lot of new experiences and a few,
often hard-earned credit points – quite a few speak of a milestone they will
remember their whole life long. Those wishing to find out about the
possibilities of a semester[SO1] [B2] or internship abroad have so far
faced the problem that extremely limited information was available.
(Auslandsstudium mit Kind), a portal co-developed by 51ÁÔÆæ Frankfurt, features – apart from extensive information – a large number of experience reports by parents who have ventured this step with their family.
This is the
starting point for the portal (Auslandsstudium mit Kind) (in German only), which
– apart from comprehensive information from the initial idea to actual
implementation – also offers a lot of scope for dreaming about faraway places:
over 50 experience reports by students who have travelled to far-distant
corners of the globe for a study-related stay with their children (with or
without their partner) awaken not only the desire for travel and adventure but
also share detailed information about how to put into practice the wish to
spend a semester abroad with a child.
In 2015,
the portal developed within the best practice club (Family Life and Academia) had to be taken offline following a hacker attack. Last year, Goethe
University Frankfurt, together with Wismar University of Applied Sciences,
updated the portal and gave it a new look. It is also thanks to the financial
support of the German Academic Exchange Service that the portal is now online
again.
For many
students, studying abroad first of all requires a lot of organisation. Before
it even takes shape, you have to fight your way through an enormous jungle of
information and rules. The best solution is to get in touch with the
International Office or the Erasmus coordinators in the faculties. For students
with children, who find themselves even more at the nexus of studies, work and
family than their fellow students, specific information on how the whole thing
can function with a family is often not even available.
Further
links
We are urgently looking for further experience reports by students who have undertaken a study-related stay abroad with a child! It requires very little effort to convert your Erasmus+ report – other students with children will be very grateful to you! You can find the template .